blow hot and cold
US /blo hɑt ænd koʊld/
・UK /bləʊ hɒt ænd kəʊld/
C1 cao cấp
idm.thay đổi thất thường (dễ thay đổi tâm trạng)
She blows hot and cold about moving abroad, unsure at times.
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Trong cuộc trò chuyện: Alain de Botton về công ty tuyệt vời cùng Jamie Laing (In Conversation: Alain de Botton on Great Company with Jamie Laing)
- It's, you know, the ones who the ones who come and go and, you know, blow hot and cold for for a few minutes, you know, we'll we'll get over them.
Đó là, bạn biết đấy, những người đến rồi đi và, bạn biết đấy, lúc nóng lúc lạnh trong vài phút, bạn biết đấy, chúng ta sẽ vượt qua họ.
- It's, you know, the ones who the ones who come and go and, you know, blow hot and cold for for a few minutes, you know, we'll we'll get over them.
Ừm, bạn biết đấy, câu nói cũ đó, nỗi đau là cái giá chúng ta phải trả cho tình yêu.
Chiến thuật mới của Nga trong đêm tấn công thứ hai liên tiếp vào Kyiv (New Russian tactic on the second consecutive night of attacks on Kyiv)
- But I think the feeling is that given the unpredictability, so to say, of the Trump administration and the fact that this president in the White House seems to blow hot and cold on Ukraine, depending upon his mood at any given hour, that really the adults in the room, the European leaders who are so much closer to Ukraine, really have to focus on providing the assistance Ukraine needs at a time when we're seeing the pressure from Russia is increasing.
- I think the, the feeling is that given the unpredictability, so to say, of the Trump administration and, uh, the fact that this president in the White House seems to blow hot and cold on Ukraine depending upon his mood at any given hour, uh, that really the adults in the room, the European leaders who are so much closer to Ukraine, uh, really have to focus on providing the kind of assistance Ukraine needs at a time when we're seeing the pressure from Russia is increasing.
Tôi nghĩ, cảm giác là do sự khó đoán, có thể nói là, của chính quyền Trump và, ờ, việc tổng thống này ở Nhà Trắng dường như lúc nóng lúc lạnh về Ukraine tùy thuộc vào tâm trạng của ông vào bất kỳ giờ nào, ờ, rằng thực sự những người có lý trí, các nhà lãn
Tại sao chúng ta không thể ngừng yêu người làm tổn thương mình (Why We Can't Stop Loving Those Who Hurt Us)
- But for others among us, this is when we begin to show our distinctive colours. Hope springs eternal. Yes, the partner may presently be somewhat disappointing, but soon they may recover. Admittedly, they have become hugely unkind in many ways, but they did apologise nicely last week, before repeating their offence, and so there is a decent chance, we believe, that things will be on an upswing over the longer term. To outside observers, the faith that we have in our partner can appear quasi-religious. Why do we keep giving our unreliable companion so much leeway? Why do we hope against hope? Why don't we cut our losses right now and leave? Why are we so convinced that with just a little more effort on our part, one more discussion, one more long email sent in the early hours, everything will alter? Furthermore, perhaps why do we keep assuming that we have done something wrong and that it is primarily our role to apologise and make amends? The explanation is that we grew into hopeful people not by choice, but of necessity. We almost certainly spent our childhoods in circumstances where we had no option but to become enormous believers in our parents and, simultaneously, enormous doubters of ourselves. When little, we couldn't afford to think that our parents were simply disappointing, wounded people with whom we shouldn't interact too much and then walk away. We were four years old. So we did what children of unfulfilling parents always do. We started to think ill of ourselves. We developed a genius for wondering what was wrong with us and for assembling complicated and overly generous explanations for the bad behaviour of others. We evolved an expectant stance towards whatever morsel of love our parent might throw our way. We became excited by deprivation. All day they might have been ill-tempered and cruel to us. Perhaps at nightfall, they might say something sweet and ruffle our hair. This became the most exciting and appalling game of our lives. As adults, we continue to be addicted to this tension. It has come to seem that this is what love is, the pain-tinged, continuous expectation that an unfulfilling person might abruptly turn round and be nice to us again. Love is waiting for someone who was once slightly kind to resume their interest. It doesn't strike us that love might actually be something quite different, simpler and less tortured. An ongoing, reliable exchange of mutually respectful sympathy and gentleness. And if it's not this, that we should leave at once. Indeed, if we have the troubled fortune to meet a reliable soul, we will probably respond to them with a feeling of nausea and bewilderment and flee in short order. Perhaps back to the last unfulfilling partner. The toll we pay in terms of wasted years is lamentable. Whereas others among us can enjoy calm, kindly relationships, we will get locked into exhausting scenarios with perturbed individuals who very subtly mess us around, who say one thing and do another, who don't give us physical affection or blow hot and cold, who may be having affairs and keep promising to change and don't. And the worst is that for all our suffering, this somehow excites us, this keeps us on our toes, this feels like what we need to keep doing. We know nothing else. We have to start to believe what our childhoods never allowed us to think. Some people need to be given up on. Certain seemingly ordinary and good people are in fact very damaged and will hurt and bully those around them. Some people with a few lovely qualities to them will, considered in the round, work an entirely negative effect on our lives. It's not our role to keep second-guessing unfulfilling people, to spin elaborate stories as to why they may be doing what they do.
- Whereas others among us can enjoy calm, kindly relationships, we will get locked into exhausting scenarios with perturbed individuals who very subtly mess us around, who say one thing and do another, who don't give us physical affection or blow hot and cold, who may be having affairs and keep promising to change and don't.
Trong khi những người khác trong chúng ta có thể tận hưởng các mối quan hệ êm đềm, tử tế, chúng ta sẽ bị cuốn vào những tình huống mệt mỏi với những cá nhân bối rối, những người rất tinh tế làm phiền chúng ta, những người nói một đằng làm một nẻo, những n
9 Lỗi Phổ Biến Nhất Khi Chọn Bạn Đời (The 9 Most Common Mistakes We Make when Choosing a Partner)
- It can take a long time to develop immunity to the appeal of those who blow hot and cold, hate themselves, refuse our affections, deceive us and fall into rages and despair late at night.
- It can take a long time to develop immunity to the appeal of those who blow hot and cold, hate themselves, refuse our affections, deceive us,
Có thể mất nhiều thời gian để phát triển khả năng miễn dịch với sự hấp dẫn của những người lúc nóng lúc lạnh, ghét bản thân, từ chối tình cảm của chúng ta, lừa dối chúng ta,